How about some advice? It's been 17 years since I've seen my kids, I'm going to see them in two months?

How do I approach this, I don't know them, and they don't know me. I don't know if they're as afraid and nervous as I am. These last 17 years their mother has made any kind of relationship with my kids so difficult, now their old enough where I can have a relationship with them, and not through their mother. Give me some advice, Please.How about some advice? It's been 17 years since I've seen my kids, I'm going to see them in two months?
The first time I got to meet my real dad it was the most exciting day of my life. I know this sounds a little different than your situation but I can tell you they might be nervous but I would have to think that they are really excited. No matter what other people have tried to make them believe and what ever they might have in their mind all they want to do is see you and hug you.





It didn't matter who my dad was or what he had done or not done to me I just wanted the chance to be with him. They might not know who you are but deep down inside they know that they are yours and you are theirs.





I found that just in talking about little things...there were so many similar thoughts and actions that made me feel connected.





One time I noticed he seemed apologetic about issues..I don't know if that is something they might want...I personally didn't need any...I just wanted to be with him.





I loved it when he was just himself...when he was just interested in me...I wish I had some advise...I just know that when I saw he was happy to see me everything was ok. Talk and listen and hugs...that's all I wanted.





I know as a kid I just wanted to be with my dad....I wish you well...I'm sure it is going to be great!