My parents are getting a divorce soon and I actually kinda agree with it. My dad always makes us(my mom,sister and I) my dad does everything for his self while my mom does everything for me and my sister first and there are also other reasons. I think this will be the best for everyyone. But can you guys please give me some advice?Advice about my parents getting a divorce ?
Divorce is always hard, I can't tell you it isn't. But I can tell you that it will be okay, and in the end, it's the best for everyone.
My parents divorce was a complete shock to me, and it hit me really hard. But I got through it with the help of family and friends. Talk to your friends about it, you don't want to keep your emotions bundled up. Know that it's good to cry. The day my parents told us, my friend brought ice cream over and we just sat in front of the tv watching Friends and eating ice cream. It was still new so it hadn't hit me yet, but just being with my friend helped so much.
Go out and do something with your sister. I don't know how close in age you and her are, but that doesn't matter too much. If she is little, take her to the park and play with her. If she is older, take a walk, or go to the mall. She is the only person that is in the same position as you are, and talking with her will really help.
Try not to get involved with the fighting. Parents often accidentally try to sway their children to one side or the other, do not do go along with it. Talk to one of your friends, see if you can stay at her house if they ever get in a big fight and you want to leave for a while.
If you want to talk, or need help with anything else, just email me.Advice about my parents getting a divorce ?
well my advice isn't going to be the greatest cuz my dad is kinda the same he thinks he can take over the world he is capable to do great things but once he get started he gets grouchy with every one. so my parents are both upset with each other.SO! I decided to play my part as the kide and change the way i looked at them. I am calm but I trided to speak back but not in a aggressive way and it seems to work! he don't mess with us meaning ( brother, sisters, mom ). Try to be sort of the opposite with out a hug jump with being youeself and other behaver.
meaning opposite:
[nice] -standing up for yourself
[standing up for yourself] - nice
ooh . divorces are hard . but sometimes they're for the best. my parents divorced when i was 7 . it wasnt nice but they just couldnt stay together. all you can do is be there for eachother and hopefully everything will work out for the best.
I guess, it will be the best, I mean, if he does that, there's no telling what he will do later on. If he does everything only for himself, he doesn't love you guys. Your choice, just giving you some insights.
just don't get in the middle of their arguing. it really mucks things up.
If they think its best then thats good that there is no fighting
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