Need some advice about what to tell my wife?

My wife and I are separated and she refuses to go to a counselor with me. I plan on going by myself. Should I tell her or not?Need some advice about what to tell my wife?
Yes, go ahead and tell her your going. She may see that your doing something for yourself and taking the initiative to want to fix your marriage, and maybe she'll change her mind and end up going with you. Just be honest and open with her....thats the best way to repair a relationshipNeed some advice about what to tell my wife?
Get the counselling and tell her yes you are going. After a few visits she might change her mind and get involved since most conversations are going to be about her. At first she will be adamant about not going but curiosity is a driving force. Do not share with her what you talk about in your sessions. When she asks just give her the date of your next appointment.
Tell her, but if she decides she wants to join you in counseling, then you should see someone else. Otherwise, she'll be convinced that all the visits you had before was to convince the therapist that you are right about everything so you two can gang up on her.

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